On the Male Loneliness Epidemic

Frankly, I am quite tired of this topic.
We know about it now, men don't have as much of their social power on/over women these days anymore (where is this measured?), women are becoming more independent in terms of education and employment, and they are less attracted to the conservative gender roles and the style that men inhibit (tradwife trend excluded). Men become lonely, and thus dangerous. For millennia women have been oppressed under the patriarchy (arguably, still are as we are speaking) and what's the consequence taken out of men's hubris? Blaming women? Assaulting women? The rise of the influencer age with thanks to short-form (and long-form, to be fair, as well) video content on Tiktok and Youtube has not helped this case. Men are taught to hate women in their lives, because it is them that made them miserable; no self-reflection needed, just point to your neighbor.
It is possible to empathize with men's plights, no doubt, who does not know the looming eye of loneliness? But can anybody tell me why - during the lockdown era of the COVID pandemic in the early 2020s - the domestic violence against women rose dramatically? Can anybody tell me why women still change the side of the street at night, with their keys between their knuckles, earbuds with no music on?
If men want to be wanted, they are the ones who have to change, instead of waiting for the world around them to change according to their ideals.